Relationships +

Nigerians really think that after a certain age, a woman is ruined. A woman as a single mother? Also ruined....

They might never accept that you are at fault, so their first reaction, their priority is to protect you, maybe...

The truth is that there are many people who get off on arguments, as in, they simply derive some kind...

Be yourself! It is you the family wants to meet; they are curious as to why their son or daughter...

Everybody knows how to conduct the business of her marriage, much better than her at least. Ah, you did not...

We want those friends that knew us long before our breasts sprouted out, before we became creatures who liked boys....

It feels a lot like you’re getting compliments, but in reality, you’re not, dear. You are being put under pressure...

Haunted by the devastating darkness of civil war and searingly observant about the myriad ways that tribalism defines life everywhere...

Please don’t be like those who visit and then start expecting food. I don’t even understand how we do things...

Culturally we play the saint, speak in tongues, clutch our Bibles to our chest, but inside we are having sex...